You are NOT the Boss of Me!

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Many artists dream of making their living from their art full time.

And they pine to be free of a boss or a “Team Leader.”

I get that. The last “Team Leader” I had was nick-named “Snotty Scotty.”

I did not dub him this. He earned this title all on his own from his long-standing colleagues, who wanted me to take his place.

Why? Because he was often dropping the ball.

He was a vector of evil that made it impossible for me to even think of returning to another corporate cubicle after I quit.

So in a way, he was actually an angel.

But guess what? Even though I have my own business, I still have a boss.

“I have met the enemy and sometimes she is me.”

Why? Because my boss:

  • Doesn’t give me enough praise
  • She barely lets me take a day off
  • She will not give me a pay raise. She goes on and on about how we must invest profits back in the company. Jeez!

Why am I sharing this story?

Because I’m currently mentoring a self-employed jewelry designer from Canada who realized that not only does she have a crappy boss (herself), she’s got an unproductive employee (herself.)

Why? Her employee:

  • often doesn’t show up to work
  • comes and goes and she pleases
  • treats her job as a hobby

The boss (herself) can’t fire her employee (herself).

Because if her boss looses her key employee, the company will fold.

Clearly it’s time to heal these working relationships to create a more productive work environment.

My recommendation was that her boss give her employee more praise and constructive feedback.

And that her employee get off her ass and stop taking her job for granted!

Clearly, they need to build mutual respect.

In her weekly mentoring update, she reported that she had done just that and had a much more productive work-week. She said,

“I now realize that daily praises work!!

They boost me to take extra steps!

So now I will continue with writing/creating praises for myself for my business to be my best cheerleader!!!”

-Denise Parenteau 

Whether you are a full-time or a part-time artist:

  • What kind of a boss are you?
  • Would others want to work for you?
  • What kind of an employee are you?
  • What would your boss write in your annual review?
  • Would others hire you?

Let us know in the comments below.

The truth will set you free!

 

 

Fear and Desire, an Artist’s Fuel

Someone said recently, “Define your goals as clearly as your fears.”  Amen.

As a result of my recent interview with Jonathan Fields for the Good Life Project I heard from many artists who where inspired by my artistic and entrepreneurial journey.  Musicians, painters, photographers, all sorts of creatives expressed their gratitude.

This month marks then end of my sixth year in business as an artist. As I reflect upon my journey, I remember how scared I was when I started. 

I moved to a very expensive city, San Francisco, where I had no personal or business contacts and I had no plan.

But after a Blue Sky session I determined my potential target market and then I arrived at a very clear guiding goal, to earn over $100K in my first year in business painting. 

This SMART goal not only shaped my daily priorities it focused my actions and steadied my fearful mind.

My actions where fueled by desire to become a successful artist and fear that I would fail.

Having lived with anxiety for a good part of my life, it was time to embrace a new relationship with fear so that it could become one half of the fuel mix needed to rocket me to success.

Jonathan Field’s 10 Commandments of Biz of Good Life Project, includes “Thou shall train thy Mind in the ALCHEMY of FEAR.”

Fear is our friend or our enemy depending on how we direct the energy.  Fear kept, and still keeps me, moving towards my target. And I burn off the excess energy with long runs.

Don’t avoid your dreams because your scared, go for it because you are scared.  Use the fuel.

As this year comes to a close, I encourage your to define your goals as clearly as your fears.

If you are going to be afraid, be afraid of never trying your level best to have what you desire in this life.

Don’t take time and opportunities to move for granted.  Nothing lasts forever.

 

Artist Ann Rea on Painting Outside the Lines in Art and Life

I’m featured on this week’s episode of the Good Life Project.

Dear Good Lifer!

So excited to be sharing the first in a series of episodes filmed around the famed Bay Area in northern California.

San Francisco painter, Ann Rea, was deep in a hole. Depressed, anxious, working in a career that was leaving her empty and heavily medicated, she turned to painting as therapy. And everything changed.

What started as a return to sanity grew into a salvation and a calling. But to turn it into a living, Ann came face-to-face with the “gallery system.” Something in her gut told her it was not for her. Too little control and power.

So, she decided to do what everyone else said was un-doable. She went around the system and created her own path to become a successful painter, entrepreneur and now mentor to other artists trying to do the same.

In this week’s episode of Good Life Project, we dive deep into her journey.

Click here to watch it now>>>

If you’ve got any artist friends who are trying to figure out how to make a living, be sure to share Ann’s inspired story with them.

With gratitude,

Jonathan

 

I’ve been absolutely terrified every moment of my life — Georgia O’Keeffe

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“I’ve been absolutely terrified every moment of my life and I’ve never let it keep me from doing a single thing that I wanted to do.”
— Georgia O’Keeffe

This wisdom from Georgia O’Keefe reminds me of my friend Jonathan Fields‘ newest book.  But Jonathan takes O’Keefe’s wisdom to another level of practical understanding and application.

Go get his book. “Uncertainty: Turning Fear and Doubt into Fuel for Brilliance.

Disclaimer, I am biased because he profiled me in his first book, “Career Renegade.”  Another recommendation for Artists Who THRIVE.

Back to Ms. O’Keefe.  She spoke my truth. When I was working at my last JOB, my manager’s nickname was actually Snotty Scotty. I did not bestow this name upon him; he had clearly earned the title before I met him.

One fine day I arrived back home from my two hour, one way, commute from San Francisco’s financial district and I had just had it.

I could not return to such a soul sucking existence when unexplored options were available to me.  So I decided that I would quit my job, sell my home and move to San Francisco where I would paint full time and I would make money.

“Oh really?” That’s what the disbelievers said.  Worst-case scenario I would find another job.

But I had to go for it.  I didn’t want to have any regrets.  My late and dear cubicle mate Angela was reminding me of this every day.

I was indeed terrified.  I had no plan, no network, no experience running a business, and most importantly no example to follow of an artist actually even considering their creative endeavor as a business.  It was a constant stretch of thinking and faith.

The fear itself was energy. It was fuel.  And I applied it to determine a SMART goal, using my project management skills to outline and execute an action plan, and to secure resources.

Tony Robbins says, “You don’t have to be rich, you just have to be resourceful.”

Initially I really did not know what I was doing and I really did not know how I was going to get there but I knew what I wanted.  And knowing what you want is half the battle.