“How do I find my tribe, my target market? I don’t really know anyone. I’m new to town.”
This question actually came up on our most recent group call from an artist who is enrolled in The MAKING Art Making MONEY Semester.
Just like me, when I started my artistic enterprise full-time, I was new to town and didn’t know anyone. Never mind, potential collectors or sources of referrals.
This was actually an advantage because it forced me to meet new people and to be more deliberate and strategic about it.
The few people who this artist does know are others artists and there are two problems she’s having with that.
- The artists who she knows are “negative” because they are waiting to be discovered.
- The other problem is that they are never going to buy her art.
Now I know there are rare exceptions to this rule but her target market is not going to be the other artists.
So she needs to get out and mix and mingle, talk about her mission, and expand her network.
She said, “I don’t even know where to start!”
Just start. Get practiced in meeting new people, connecting, and being helpful.
“To start your objective is to find other people with shared values or interests.” I advised her.
Technology makes it easy for us connect.
Go search Meetup.com, Eventbite.com, Face Book, and ask around.
It’s so easy to find events so that you can meet other people with similar interests.
And you need to because relationships equal revenue.
“I feel so awkward when I go to these events.”
“Join the club!” I responded. So does everyone else when they first join in.
So be a hero and just go up to someone who is also alone, or the person sitting next to you and just say, “Hello. My name is (fill in the blank.) What’s yours?” Then say, “What brings you here?”
Then just listen.
Seriously. That’s all there is to it.
Then they may ask, “What brings you here?” or something else.
Before you know it, you’ll have started a conversation and you know what to do from here.
If you go to an event and you connect with just one person, you’ve hit a home run.
You do not need to collect twelve business cards before you allow yourself to leave.
If you do this three times a week, your network will blow up.
Eventually you will have new opportunities that you could never have even dreamt of.
The key is to be polite, smile genuinely, listen, and see if there might be a way that you could help the person you’re speaking with.
That’s how you make a stranger into a new friend or ally.
Now I know you know all this stuff already but sometimes the idea of networking can feel daunting or overwhelming because you know that you have to expand your network but you don’t really want to feel uncomfortable among strangers.
But when you just break it down the simple steps above, it’s really not so bad.
The most important thing is to do it, and expect that in the beginning you’ll feel a bit awkward or shy.
Just be yourself. Because when you’re open and honest other people sense it and that gives them permission to relax and be themselves.
We don’t want to meet the PR version of someone; we want to connect with the real person.
Most people are kind and helpful and don’t forget they are there because they also want to make new connections.
So get over yourself and just extend your hand and say hello. It won’t kill you.
And people are not judging you. You’re just not that important. They’re concerned with themselves.
We don’t succeed alone so get out of your studio and mix and mingle at least once this week.
Now share your plans below.
About Ann Rea
Ann Rea is a San Francisco based Artist and Entrepreneur. Her inspired business approach to selling her paintings have been featured on HGTV and the Good Life Project, in Fortune, and The Wine Enthusiast magazines, profiled in the book Career Renegade. Rea’s artistic talent is commended by American art icon, Wayne Thiebaud, and she has a growing list of collectors across North America and Europe.
Excellent Misty!
I live in rural Idaho. It is about an hour commute for me to attend any events, and I am exhausted from working a minimum of 55 hours a week at a job that I do not like (it was 60-90 hours a week last year!), but it is worth it to make the trip and carve out the time! I am primarily a visual artist, but I signed up for a Writer’s Workshop on the 16th, a Startup Grind Event with Cartoonist/Movie Maker Steve Moore on the 30th, and then I will be attending a Live Your Legend Meet-Up (Yay Scott Dinsmore!) on October 6th! Thank you for your encouragement, Ann!
Good job Lisa!
“…people are not judging you. You’re just not that important.”
Yeah. That.
I can’t tell you how many times I’ve actually gotten thank you notes in the mail after a meetup-type event because I just introduced myself and made it easier for the other person to be themselves – instead of trying to push-push-push myself on them. Actually, I could tell you, because I keep the cards, but that’s not the point.
When you make it less about YOU and more about THEM, it’s always a win. People remember how you made them feel – as Maya Angelou famously said.
Great James!
Hi Mrs. Rea, I enjoy reading your articles more and more. Since I came to a lecture at the Berkeley Public Library. I have made some progress with my product, and a few marketing strategies, both on-line, and person to person, including traveling.
Hi Lena, I live in a very similar place so I know how it is. You may need to just travel farther or network more online.
Looks like you have three choices Lena.
You can commute, network online, or move.
I did all three 😉
thank you for the article. It is all true. But to connect in a big city is way easier. I live in small town, where people wearing ripped dirty jeans and make $9 per hour. There is no hang out places, where potential customers could be. No galleries, no theaters, no public places. Just walmart. And i love meeting new people, it is not a problem for me to make new friends or just to say “hi”, i am very much extravert,the problem is there is no one to meet. I know there is an answer, but i haven’t found it yet))))